home. 1. “To the place where one lives”. 2. “The place where one lives permanently, esp. as a member of a family or household”. 3. “An environment offering security and happiness.” 4. “Feeling an easy competence and familiarity”. 5. “ The place, such as a country or town, where one was born or has lived for a long period”.
the first 5 definitions that popped up on my screen as i Googled “home” this morning. truth is, lately i have been missing our acme home. not that sc and i don’t love it here in kelowna, we do. it is beautiful and warm and the change is exciting. it’s just that “home” hasn’t left our minds, nor should it. and so i thought it appropriate to tribute those “things” that are stuck in our minds about home, and the people who are there that we miss.
if you are from a small town, (and i am talking SMALL town, like under 500 people small..) you will understand how everyone knows everyone. you have all grown up together, lived through everything together, fought together, cried together, laughed together and been together forever. being from a small town myself, an even smaller town than acme, i knew right away that it is not always easy to be the ‘new girl’, and sometimes it is hard to fit into these cohesive groups where it is more like a bunch of siblings then “normal friends”. i remember my first visit to acme with scott. i was terrified! here i was, going to meet one of the most important groups of people in his life, and even though i knew these were his friends, I felt like it was more of a “meet the family”. i remember thinking, ‘how could i ever become as good of friends with any of these people if i haven’t known them my whole life’, ‘what if they didn’t like me’. ‘what if they didn’t want to like me’… if only i had known that i would also see these people as close as “family” in a matter of 2 years.
after meeting them, all of my concerns about being the new girl were gone. i was quickly welcomed into this small group of amazing people. people who have been friends for longer than they could remember. they were kind, accepting, inviting, and most of all some of the funnest, most amazing people i have ever been around. these people are genuine, and some of the most caring, hardworking and honest individuals that i know. people who would do anything for not only scott, but they would do anything for me and even for my family no matter what. people who take time out of their busy schedules and busy lives to come help build a fence, lay sod, or move furniture, go for a drive, or to just come for a visit. these are people who make a community a home, and make a newcomer feel welcome.
i am soo incredibly honored to now be able to call these people some of my greatest friends and i am thankful to have so many of these amazing people our lives. i know that these are the types of friendships that will last a lifetime, no matter where we all live. i’m not sure if it is a small town thing, or if scott and i just got lucky ~but i just wanted to say thank-you to all of those who accepted me into your circle, and that i truly, truly miss you all!! (and i know that scott does too!!).
if any of you have friends like these, be sure to appreciate them and all they do for you, and most importantly be sure to recognize all the fun that you have together. i appreciate the random nights where we stayed up too late solving the world’s problems, the many many drives out to ‘check cows’ and car-dancing ( 😉 Thanks GDavis), the roadside and neighborly visits, the heart-to-hearts, the drop-in hello’s, the movie nights, evan eating everything in our fridge, the dance parties with the cowboys, the girls late night photoshoots, laughing hysterics, dreaming and planning big trips that may or may not ever happen (haha), pretending to want to go to boot-camp ;), volleyball at the beach court (yes, although very far from the beach, acme does have a beach volleyball court..), the sunday afternoons and the saturday nights… or thursday nights… ;). everything. so thank you all so much. we feel so lucky to have you all in our life, and like i said before, you are all people who make a small town like acme a “home”, our home.<3
(PS: to all of my hometown Rockyford and Standard friends wondering why you havent’ gotten a blog post (ha ha) ~ i love you all too and it’s coming! soon!! 😉
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